Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Friday, September 23, 2011

Sensual Love




Staring out the window
She wraps herself in linens
Emerging from the shadows
Her lover hungry for her taste

The haze of dusk settling
The world becomes quiet
The tides are sluggish now
The birds nestling down

Warm breezes fill the room
Scented candles illuminate
She swirls her glass of wine
No thoughts, no worries, just time

Her lover behind her now
Gentle hands upon her hips
Pulling her in to him
Lips pressed firmly on her nape

His hands descend down between her thighs
Fingertips dragging closer
She quivers at his touch
Her body so fragile and so vulnerable

His determination is unmoving
A desire to bring ecstasy
To a woman that he loves
Until exhaustion hits
They make unyielding,
Passionate and sensual love


Anon

Sunday, July 24, 2011

The Act of Gentle Seduction


Men - especially married men - often do not take time to seduce their partner.

The act of gentle seduction causes her to feel sexually desirable, wanted, cherished and demonstrates genuine respect and affection. Feeling this way turns a woman on.

Take time to become deeply interested in her feelings. Spend time with her. When you do, every sexual aspect of your relationship becomes the normal course of action.

Put some excitement and thoughtfulness in setting the stage to become united:

  • It can begin with a love note, an unexpected greeting card or a sexy phone call suggesting intimacy the day before.
  • Read a book on seduction.
  • Pay attention to the techniques of some of our greatest lovers. It was Ricardo Montalban who said that a great lover is someone who can satisfy one woman her entire life and be satisfied with one woman his entire life.
  • Plan a surprise evening at home together. No TV. No phones. No kids. Get a babysitter to care for them overnight . . . at the babysitter's house!
  • The key here is to plan in advance. Have an agenda. No cooking. Cater in a bite to eat. Chill her favourite wine. Watch an erotic video.
  • Talk. Listen. Seduce.
  • Experience each other to the fullest. Make it an evening to remember. Do whatever you need to do to prepare an evening she will always treasure, one she will talk about for years to come.
  • Making love is on the agenda, and it shouldn't feel as though you are squeezing it in hurriedly between the last TV show and the first sleepy yawn. Slow down. Take your time.
  • Dim the lights. Scatter lit candles around the room. They can create an atmosphere of mystery of things to come. Burn some incense. Pick music that creates a passionate mood.
  • Give her no less than thirty minutes of exquisite foreplay. Do what SHE likes.
  • Pleasure her in erotic ways, orally and otherwise.
  • This is not a night for you; it's for her.
  • Try to imagine why you think "Love Me Tender" was such a big hit!
  • Express your love by making warm and passionate love on the floor in front of the fireplace. Remember to light the fire.
  • Have several blankets nearby in case you fall asleep.
  • It takes imagination, creative seduction and sensitivity to her every sexual need.
  • The subtle action of seduction enhances lovemaking and promises more sexual satisfaction for both love partners.
  • Together you will cherish those private moments only committed partners can treasure.
By Larry James

Thursday, June 23, 2011

What is sensuality?

Look in the dictionary for a definition of sensuality, depending upon the version and maker, varying definitions exist. Ask any person to define sensuality, and still more interpretations. Sensuality in its truest form is not to be confused with SEX. Sensuality means to be aroused by things of beauty, luxury and refinement, to be aware of and explore the world, life and love with all the senses. To be sensual is to be aware of and appreciate the natural, ecstasy that can be found in the sensuous, passionate world of feeling, inhabited by poets, artists, song writers and dreamers. Being sensual brings to us a life felt through our senses, seen only in the world of spirit.

Living a sensuous life, your world is enhanced by awareness. Appreciation and acceptance for who and what you are. A passion for life and love. Sensuality is a world that virtually weaves itself in a rich tapestry of beauty, of intense arousal and passion where even the simplest touch of a finger drawn lightly across the bare skin of a lover’s back in the early morning hour causes the lover to awaken filled with a heightened awareness. In their heightened states, the colors of the world are painted in more radiant, vivid hues; eyes are deeper, skin is creamier as the sun filtering through the drapes dances off their bodies. An exquisite luxurious feeling. Joy. That exultation of spirit, pleasure, passion and delight is yours. Joy leads to ecstasy.

Keep ecstasy in our lives and lovers will go through their days filled with joy - that never ending supply of excitement of the spirit that brightens their lives and fills them with delight. Feeling and being are the sublime part of a man and brings warmth, gentleness, relatedness and perception to sensuality. It is the divine feminine nature existing in both a man and a woman. Feeling is the art of having a value structure and a sense of meaning and belonging. Feeling is the part that brings love to us. Romance in a relationship allows us to touch the soul of a lover. Romance and ecstasy mixed, allows us to touch the heart and soul.

What person doesn’t love Love? It is the essence of life. Love. Such a wonderful, essential part of our beings. Without it we would wither and die. Romance, ecstasy, passion and ultimately, love, are so powerful a human drive they have kindled wars, created works of art, consoled the dying, driven kings to insanity and bankrupted nations. Love is the most important aspect of our lives, yet we spend our lives searching for it when a simple act of vulnerability toward our feeling nature will cause it to spring forward, catching us like a bird in flight.

It is that vital, intrinsic, pulse-beating passion within us, our feeling natures, sensuality, that gives us creativity and a sense of joy. Through our feelings we experience our purpose and the special, ecstatic moments in our lives. It is through our feelings that our lives are given meaning and worth. It is our romancing one another in loving, ecstatic ways that helps us to discover that we are ALL sensual beings.