How to Get a Shy Man to Ask You Out

As a dating coach, one of the top questions that I get is, “How to seduce a shy man."

Well the answer is easily. Shy men are usually grateful to have you approach them. They may be in absolute love or lust with you but feel like it will never happen because they can not drum up the nerve to approach you.

Just like we sometimes think guys are out of our league, men sometimes feel the same way about us. They are afraid of being ridiculed and rejected. A shy guy may have this fear in abundance.

By approaching him, you take that pressure away. Do it slowly. Strike up a conversation the first time. Invite him for coffee the next, etc.

Try to get him to laugh at a joke. Humour is a great way to break the ice and put him at ease.

Also give him non-verbal signs that you are interested.

I will break this down in to three parts:

1) How to Flirt – You can do more flirting with your eyes than with any other technique. Look at him then look away then look back again. Or stare him right in the eyes and hold his gaze then smile real slow.

Use the quick lip lick. The hair toss. The hair curl around the finger technique.

Try this eyebrow raise that I mention in my book. Do a double to really get his attention.

We are all born with the ability to flirt. Look at any two year old and you can see it. We start flirting young then end up getting guilted out of doing it or warned against doing it because of office politics. You know how. You are simply out of practice. So that is your fun assignment for the day – practice, practice, practice.

2) When to flirt – Flirt when you are truly interested, flirt when you want the other person to feel good, flirt when you are feeling good yourself. There is no hard and fast rule about flirting.

3) When not to flirt – Don not take your level of flirting farther than you want to go. Don not flirt with someone you know really likes you if you do not share those feelings. Don not flirt with someone whose job might be at stake if taken the wrong way. Do not flirt with your best friends boyfriend.

Walk into the situation knowing that you are beautiful, desireable, funny and intelligent. You may end up being the one to ask him out.

A confident woman always looks more attractive. Do whatever it takes to achieve that confidence.

1) Take the time to fix yourself up before leaving home.

2) Put on a scent that makes you feel sexy.

3) Dress in a way that makes you feel desirable without exposing too much.

4) Plan topics of conversation ahead of time, if you like.

5) Take beauty classes or etiquette classes if you feel that will help.

6) Develop one area of yourself that you excel at and you will have a topic of conversation that you can talk passionately about. That passion will come through in the flush of your cheeks and the sparkle in your eyes.

Once he understands that you really like him, Mr. Shy guy may be ready to direct a few interesting suggestions in your direction.

By Caterina Christakos

Top Sensual Spots in Men and Women

Both men and women have key sensual spots on their unique and different human anatomies. Women as a rule are very open and receptive to touch at all times. Men on the other hand can want to be touched at times and not so much at other times. Sometimes with males, it can go according to the mood that they are in at the time. It all depends on the specific man in question as an individual. In addition, what he prefers in the stimulation and lovemaking department. Nevertheless, the one thing that both men and women enjoy equally is being on the pinnacle of excitement by caresses and what not to areas of their body that is both highly pleasurable and arousing to them as a rule. No man and woman are the same and we each have our own sensual spots that are very different from someone else's. Therefore, what may work for one woman may not work for another woman and vice versa? Only each of one us, and the person we are intimate, with can know these spots very well. Everyone else has no clue as to what is what and what turns each individual on as an individual.

Therefore, the purpose of this article is to educate and enlighten those who do not know what some of the top sensual spots on men and women are. However, before these will be in focus here. Some of the top sensual spots that both men and women share will be in highlight first. As they reflect the same sensual spots that, both sexes do have as a rule. There are just general sensual spots that exist on men and women and are a fact of nature that cannot be in dispute.

What are the sensual spots that both males and females have?

The skin is the largest organ in the body. It is also one of the most stimulating areas. That males and females possess.

The breasts of both males and females are one of the highly erogenous of all places that both sexes have.

The lips and or tongues of both males and females have the power to excite and seduce at the same time.

These are just a few of the shared sensual spots that both sexes have as a rule. Most males and females like to use them in foreplay and during lovemaking.

Now when it comes down to the top sensual spots on men and women, these places must be in focus accordingly, and this is according to what defines male and what is strictly female. Therefore, some of the top sensual spots on men will be the topic and then the latter afterwards.

What are some of the top sensual spots that men love and want their women to love just as equally before and during lovemaking? The key sensual spots for men are:

·         Ears

·         Neck

·         Nipples

·         Stomach

·         Butt

If a woman pays strict attention to these sensual spots on her man, she will not only have him ready for lovemaking, she will also have him literally eating out of her hand and whatever else.

What are some of the top sensual spots that women love and want their men to love just as equally before and during lovemaking? The key sensual spots for women are:

·         Lips

·         Ears

·         Inner thighs

·         Breasts

·         Buttocks

The sexual organs on both a male and a female can also be very sensual each in their own way. It does depend on the male and the female. Each couple defines their own meaning of true pleasure in their own right whenever together intimately. The genitals of both the male and female are without a doubt the most supreme of all of the sensual spots listed here. Because they are, the gateway to extreme orgasms and the private places that lovers tend to explore thoroughly while engaged in lovemaking.

Sensual spots do exist all over the bodies of both males and females. A love just needs to know what to look for and that is whatever excites his or her partner to the heights of true ecstasy and back.

By Julie Sullivan

How to Deal With Girls’ Insecurities

Much more than men, girls are in general insecure. They are insecure about their body: breast size, ass, weight, hair, and also, sometimes, about life itself. Girls are stronger than before, and equal to men in almost every way – but those insecurities persist.

Sometimes they are quite obvious – especially when girls are young. I’ve met dozens of girls feeling ‘sad’ that they breast were not big, and also feeling bad (and sometimes even miserable) about their weight going up. And it’s all not just limited to the body – “I’ll never find a good job”, “I’m not smart enough”, and those types of thinking are more common than you could imagine.

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